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Often it’s the deepest pain which empowers you to grow into your highest self

Often it’s the deepest pain which empowers you to grow into your highest self. We all carry with us emotional pain. It can come from anywhere and is completely subjective. Only by letting go, can we evolve into our highest possible self.

We all carry with us emotional pain. Those who claim they don’t, are simply better at hiding and suppressing it. It may come from failed relationships, being abused as a child, guilt over something you did as a teenager or even something you unconsciously picked up on while in your mothers womb. It may even stem from something seemingly silly and superficial such as someone stealing your favourite toy as a child. The reason for it is not to be judged against others, as pain is completely subjective and can defy all sense of rational logic.

If you feel it, it is real.

Morally and rationally we can all say that being abused is way more serious than having a toy stolen. Unfortunately our unconscious mind does not work that way. Having that toy stolen could have been the worst violation to have happened to a child at a young age. Without the mental and emotional maturity to deal with it, can result in the same kind of emotional scarring as the abused child.

As a Master Practitioner of Advanced Matrix Therapies, which is a form of time-line hypnosis, I have seen clients that when asked to go back to the event that initially caused the pain or trauma, will go back to some seemingly superficial event that happened way earlier than the expected cause. When dealing with a personal pain around a deep sadness I had always carried, I went back to a time in my mothers womb. I could sense, without understanding, that she did not want me, that she was rejecting me. This was then amplified upon birth when I was put up for adoption. I recalled a memory of seeing loving, happy parents, visiting the other babies in the ward, yet I was only visited by nurses. Of course everything turned out okay and I was picked up by the loving parents I have today.

This deep-seated kind of pain is carried with us through life rippling through all that we do. It is only when we summon up the courage to confront our pain, work through it, give it closure and let it go, that we can truly move on from it. And it is only through doing this that we can grow and evolve into the highest possible version of ourselves.

Often it’s the deepest pain which empowers you to grow into your highest self. We all carry with us emotional pain. It can come from anywhere and is completely subjective. Only by letting go, can we evolve into our highest possible self.

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James Cole

Empowerment Coach - Filmmaker - Writer - Artist

James worked in the film industry for 20 years studying the nuance of human behaviour in the edit suite before adding structure to his knowledge and studying a Masters of Life Coaching. He now utilises his skills as a Master Practitioner of NLP, Conscious Hypnosis and Advanced Matrix Therapies to Empower people to live at their highest potential. James is also a talented digital artist having had his artwork shown in a number of galleries around Australia.

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